Showing posts with label outstanding features. Show all posts
Showing posts with label outstanding features. Show all posts

Friday, June 29, 2018

What You Actually Do Matters Most of All...

Since your self, reputation, name, and identity are stories you and others tell about you, what you actually do matters.

What you actually do, your actions, matter more than your appearance, beliefs, opinions, education, IQ, career, income, or anything else.

What you do changes things. It affects others. It affects the world, the entire universe. 

Others remember what you do. That’s what they tell stories about. You are the story you and others tell about what you actually do. 

Wednesday, June 20, 2018

Your Identity, Part 4: Your Outstanding Physical Features

In addition to your reputation and name, your identity includes your outstanding physical features. Your outstanding physical features include the natural features of your physical body as well as everything you do to alter your physical appearance.

Your outstanding physical features might be one or a combination of what you were born with: your hair color and style, eyes, nose, mouth, body shape, breasts, arms, hands, butt, genitals, legs, and feet.

What outstanding physical features are natural to you? Have any been altered by an injury? Have you permanently altered any of your physical features?

You alter your physical features temporarily by what you do with your hair, face, clothing, and décor. How do you style your hair? Do you color it? Is your hair one of your outstanding physical features? What does it say about you?

What about your face? Do you give it outstanding features? Do you have a clean shaved face or facial hair? If you have a beard or mustache, how do you trim them? Do you wear face paint or not? Does your face paint draw attention to your eyes, lips, or both? 

Do you wear clothes that make you stand out from others? What does your clothing say about you?

What about your body décor? Do you wear hats, bags, jewelry, shoes, piercings, tattoos, a weapon, a phone, ear buds, or other accessories that make you stand out from others? If so, what does your body décor express about you?

Your postures and gestures might stand out to others and be how they identify you. Do you have outstanding postures and gestures others know you by? What do they say about you?

Take an inventory of your physical features. Do others identify you by one or more of your physical features that standout to them. What do your outstanding physical features say about you?

Friday, June 15, 2018

Your Identify, Part 1: It’s Not What You Think…

Your identity is not some mysterious psychological concept. Neither is it a transcendent, metaphysical Higher Self.

Your identity is not some it-object apart from you. It’s not within or above you to seek and find.

Your identity is everything that distinguishes you from others. It’s a whole with many parts: your reputation, name, outstanding personal features, and outstanding material possessions.

What’s your reputation? Have you made a name for yourself? 

Do others identify you by you outstanding personal features? Do they identify you by what you own